By the way, on December 6, there was news of Babri structure, the AgustaWestland scandal, Mallya’s confession and CBI dispute, to discuss or debate anyone in the newspaper. But there was a small news in between that a student of Class VII allegedly committed suicide in Indrapuri area of Delhi after being hurt by the teacher’s scolding. It took a moment to get this general news, but in the second moment suddenly a question arises that only because of the suicide that the teacher had scolded? After this, an old and tragic memory became alive when several years ago in a village, one of the girls in the neighborhood had committed suicide due to the spread of class X, because his father had scolded him.
The same happened last year in Anuppur district of Madhya Pradesh where a 10th student hurled by the principal’s scolding committed suicide.
After this and I remember, a few years ago, a tenth student at the Army School in Delhi Cantt had taken poison after coming home after scandalizing a computer teacher in the school. In fact, the news is so common now that such reports are printed on every third day of the country from the major metros of Delhi including the people, and people do not pay attention to this in the running of the fortune.
Breaking the news of these news, I remembered on the day of my school, when the teacher was beaten on the mistake, many times he had to be scolded without fault. But such a thought never came to mind, but today, how easily they take such steps when scolding the students. Although, in the past few years, children were beaten completely in schools, but these cases are not taking the name of the halt. It seems that more than the desire to do something to play, to play, today is the way to eradicate yourself in children.
The first thing to do is to find the problem after this solution can only be discussed. If you talk about the problem from school, of course today, the schools have banned the corporal punishment altogether, but in return, the introduction of mental punishment is more dangerous. In this, the students are repeatedly threatened to be evicted from school, calling their parents or humiliating in front of all students in the classroom. An emotionally strong student would tolerate this, but the students who are emotionally weak cannot afford it. However, the schools can play a key role in normalizing issues which have become taboo in the last few years in terms of new discipline.
The second one, today the school has become the landlocked place, where the children receive only the book education, in the second house there also they have been reduced to inside the walls. Even if the colony is positively, even though they are being given modern facilities, remember that the children are alone. They do not have a joint family that if the mother rebuked then grandmother, Tai or Bua gave affection. Today, due to this shortage, there is a feeling of insecurity inside them. Play with the children, give them time, emotionally strong, do not allow negativity to rise within them. The schools will have to understand that they have not only contracted the contract for paper but also have the responsibility to strengthen them on social education and emotional level. The biggest thing in it is to think that in addition to the students, there are children of gentle mind, they will not mischief at this age, then when will they? Better solution is that there should be a time period for children to make a profane mischief in schools so that they do not hurt a little in the future.
Even today, after paying a heavy amount of money by parents, most of the cases of suicides in the students are coming from modern schools, coaching institutes. When I saw data released by the National Crime Records Bureau in the past, 100 cases of suicides were registered in Kota alone in 2014, out of which 45 were coaching students, and in 2015 there were cases of suicides by 20 students.
The nature of educational institutions is that it only takes care of the students till the classroom. The students themselves have the responsibility of outside and how they can cope with the outside culture. In such a situation, some find ease in many love relationships. Some become victims of loneliness. If you constantly scold your children for good numbers, careers, jobs, habits, etc., then they start to understand their own world limited and when their mental pain becomes unbearable, then they take this step.
Thirdly, it is also known that students need financial assistance till they reach the age of one and a half, according to the needs of resources, resources and resources to move forward. Many times, they get all these things but in the course of any stress or pressure, it does not get moral, mental support that was previously found in joint families. You do not consider children to be mature until the age of 20, because at this stage he cannot solve the problems of all his problems alone, become his companion, become his partner and give him the courage and inspiration to face the problems.
Now what has happened is that most of the parents are working in most places. By taking children into expensive schools, they understand their full responsibility, giving them expensive toys in the name of love-loving. This makes the child happy for a moment, but somewhere in it, depression starts to be home in loneliness. Making pressure on the parents every day by saying that how we are spending money on it, if good marks do not come, their respect will be reduced in the society.
Parents today will have to understand that the definition of love-loving, nurturing is not limited to large-school admission, expensive toys, many clothes. If you are studying them, do always not show favor to them. These children are not your horses, you are betting on them that if you lose it then your stakes will be worthless. Instead of giving them a favor, let them realize the importance of life. Explain them live life is a beautiful thing and seeing eyes in the eyes of life is a real bravery. Necklaces are the rules of life, we do not take birth as a winner and are born as a player. Only when we play well on every single field of life, the winners are made. Probably only then will they face problems, otherwise they will have only suffocation, loneliness, irritability, and mental illness such as suicide.